Oliver here has some SERIOUS repression issues.
And holy crap that's a lot of rage he's experiencing after the scene. OK, credit where credit is due, there was NO aftercare (it was also a pretty short scene), which seems particularly strange since Amelie is all about how she as such an "intimate" play style (er, right?). But he also went in and flat out said 'nothing is off the table,' never safe-worded, and was all about doing more and doing it again. Also, not sure why Amelie went for areas in their first time playing that she knew he was less comfortable with, but ok.